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The Wardrobe Shrink October Newsletter
November 06, 2005

Hello and welcome to the November issue of The Wardrobe Shrink Newsletter.

Sarah Whittaker

What's New

Read on for this month's article - The Season of Folly - How to ensure you get the gift you want this festive season

I will shortly be leaving for a trip back to London and Amsterdam, and I am surprised by how much I am looking forward to shopping in Topshop! I have it in mind to find a pair of skinny jeans, although I wander how many people actually look good in them?

Speaking of looking good, I was browsing through the new Vogue for Men recently which I was impressed with, and an article and comment caught my eye. The article was called 'In her eyes', with three women commenting on what makes them notice a man and his style. They had three über rich and gorgeous couples dressed to the nines. Jacquetta Wheeler comments about her partner Alexi Lubomirski - "I like that Alexi never worries about his clothes. It's a Louis Vuitton shirt and Levi's during the day, and a Gucci suit at night." (Never worries?). Alexi then goes on to say how much he likes his Gucci suit - "It's not superlean like a Dior suit, or looser like an Armani. It fits incredibly well." Ummm...Alexi seems to be a bit of a shopper don't you think? How many of you have partners that know about all three of these designers or that would even set foot in Gucci? Macho or vain?

I think there is nothing better than a man dressed with style and that looks stunning to all female eyes, but I also think there is some etiquette around it. I think there is nothing worse than a man who divulges his labels AND, more importantly, who wears his 'labels' more than his partner. I remember some time ago going on a date with a man who proceeded to tell me about some of the clothes he was wearing and the designer brands. I was really surprised to find that his entire outfit was a designer showcase, and felt suddenly like the limelight had been stolen from me. After all, I wanted to be belle of the ball, and not for him to be! A man's clothing should be stylish, an expression of himself and well thought through, but taken too far he can look just too vain and overdone. I guess there is the aspect of 'keeping up with the Jones'. But then that is not about style, that is about class. And from my experience, they don't always come hand in hand. When someone has true style (that reflects their image), all knowledge of them or their designers and concern for their status, class, age...falls away. You simply want to admire them.

Stylish Men to admire
Cinema/TV: Orlando Bloom, Daniel Craig, Alan Cummings, Patrick Kielty, , Viggo Mortensen, Paul Bettany (my favourite), Leonardo DeCaprio
Music: Harry Connick Jr, Michael Buble, Paul Weller, Sting, Seal
Politics/Royalty: Barack Obama - Senator Illinois, Gavin Newsom - Mayor, San Francisco, Robert Kennedy Jr - Environmental Lawyer come best potential president, Prince Felipe of Spain.
Designers: Thomas O'Brien, John Galliano, Tom Ford
Business: John Elkann - Heir to Fiat
Sport: Rio Ferdinand - Manchester United Football player, Giancarlo Fisichella - Formula One Driver for Renault

Discover this season's Trends for Men.

And remember I offer consultations for Men, so please feel free to forward this to your male counterparts/friends.

Check out our new look website

Look forward to seeing folks across the Atlantic!


Sarah.


The Season to be Folly


This is the season to be jolly, trallah lahlah lah, lahlah lah lah... or is it the season to be folly? How many times have you received a gift over this festive season and wandered what on earth the person was thinking at the time - the sweater with the stitched motif, the costume jewellery that looks outdated rather than vintage, the socks or underwear that have zero sex appeal? After the long anticipation for that perfect gift from your partner/parent, you feel misunderstood and long for the day when another can go shopping for you. But is that really possible?

When you look in the mirror, what you see staring back at you is your own 'reflection', a derivative of the Greek word 'mirage' which means 'image'. Your image of yourself is based on your upbringing, your personal influences and life experiences and fundamentally your blueprint. When another person looks at you, on the other hand, they have their own perception of you - their image of you. This image is set in their mind like a snapshot from their very first impression of you, and is reinforced time and time again. The essential point is that most people don't realise that what others see isn't the same as what you see (when you look in the mirror). Others have a completely different reflection of you which is determined by their own life experiences, influences etc. So, it is no surprise their gift may not reflect the 'you' that you know!

So, how can you bridge the gap between what you see and what they see and how can you help them to buy the gift that you have always dreamed of?

Read the rest of the article to learn how to help others choose a more suitable gift for you.

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The next newsletter for December will feature the Image and Pregnancy - style and image advice - that I promised you this month!

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